I'm no longer sure that's true.
I think we can achieve a lot by working on our self-leadership, and behaving in a wholehearted, authentic, congruent, kind fashion.
As long as we shine a good light out in the world, we may be creating a space where others see it's ok to behave wholeheartedly as well. But the point is to find our own ways, not blindly imitate.
What do you think?